lie and ways overcome

For some people lie was regarded as problem solving, but  they doesn't think about consequences of the lie.
People divide a lie to two clasification,
lied for the good and lying to the crime. Basically, a lie isn't  good idea. Why? because when we lie we give an argument which us think is not true and we know it's wrong, but it can catched in a positive thinking by potential victims. For the first, victim will believe, but for the many times the victim will never trust again even though the argument you provide is correct.
Luckily it doesn't give a bad efect to a victim,  even if it led to something that is fatal to the victim, imagine what would happen if the victim suffered unimaginable things by you! yes, certainly there will be something to the yourself, and surely never crossed in your mind. The example you will be experience like the illustration above if you lie.
     It seems now the lie has become a work today, with capitalize lies and desperation, a fraudster could reap a hundreds of millions of dollars from his victims.
i give you ways to overcome a lie.
first, try to ask again & again , observe his/her answer! Was there a different answer when we ask the same questions over and over again?
when have a different answer, his give a lie argument.
second, when he/she give an argument, try to look her/his eyes, when his lie, usually his try to turn his gaze to the other direction.


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